Conversation help

Writing the perfect opening phrase can be daunting, but the most important thing is to be yourself and show genuine curiosity towards the person you're chatting with. Don't worry about trying to impress them with a clever or witty introduction - simply be authentic and express your interest in getting to know them better.

Start the conversation

By asking a question in your opening sentence, you make it easier for the other person to know what to answer back.

Difficult to think of questions?

Use both images and texts on someone's profile as conversation starters. Ask them to elaborate on what they share, such as why something is important to them, and show genuine interest in getting to know them better.

Go deeper

Be curious and ask open-ended questions to learn more about the person. Ask about their preferred pace in life, values, and dreams to build a deeper connection and have a meaningful conversation. Use the questions in Dejtspelet if you want to.

End a chat

As a code of conduct in Relate Date, we value each other's feelings by always ending ongoing matches or chats by not ghosting. Also watch Dejtsnack when Anna & Amanda answer a Relate user's question -"I don't know how to converse on dating apps".